November 21, 2018: I Said I Understand Sometimes.
If you want your relationship to work, it helps to be with someone you are physically attracted to; call me shallow if you want but if you can’t look at the person you are with and feel good inside you are on the highway to Splitsville. Attraction counts. Love sure but communication and understanding are the major components that will keep you guys happy year after year after year. If you can’t talk about things but not just talk about things, actually take the time to understand what the other person is saying? No matter how attracted you guys are to each other… shit is going to end… badly. So talk and take time to actually understand what the other person is saying. That’s advice to myself. #MyBlackOutPoems @centreforarttapes